How to Deal with the egoistic person in the office?

Is someone irritating you in the office or at workplace? You talk with someone and that person doesnot care about what you are saying to him/her? Is someone always trying to show you down in the office meetings in front of your team lead, manager or boss? Is someone bullying at office ? Are you the victim of mental harassment in your office?

If your answer is yes to any of these questions, you must read this article on how to deal with egoistic person in the office. Let me clear one thing here that you are not alone who is going through such kind of situation. There are many others who face negative people in every walk of life.

You should understand the fact that bad people do exist in all offices and we have to face with them to carry out our daily tasks. That person could be your collegue or team lead or Boss. That person could be lady or arrogant man. It is just impossible to find out the office in this world where you will not find such egoistic person who thinks that he/she is the only smartest person in the office.

Personally I have faced many people with such attitude. Initially I thought this is just happening to me But when I looked around,  my friends were also facing trouble at office due to some negative mean people.

How you term an egoistic person in the office?

• Egoistic person wants to prove that he or she is the best among all.
• Egoistic person will never listen to you. He/She will force you listen to him/her.
• That person will always find faults with you even though you do your best.
• Egoistic person will never accept the mistakes.
• Expecting compliments and encouragement from such person is a distant dream.
• Egoistic person will always try to downplay your efforts.
• Talking to Egoistic person is always leaves a bad taste in a mouth.

After I faced 3-4 such people, I thought that I should write an article on how to deal with such irritating people. It was very frustrating to talk to such people. At some times, I thought I would avoid such people but due to office work, I had to face with them. So it was very important to find out some way to get rid of the frustartion and anger.

Believe me you need to develop a skill to tackle such kind of people. I am sharing some tips which  will help you remove frustration.

• If possible, In a very polite manner talk to that person and tell him/her that you are getting irritated by him/her. If he/she realises the mistake, You must feel relaxed.
• Otherwise Just avoid talking to such people unless there is official work.
• If that person tries to attack you, donot counter-attack. If you counter-attack, you will also fall in bad category.
• Donot let his/her comments intimidate you. Be fearless and confident. Don't let your mind get disturbed due to his/her comments. Have a strong control on your mind.
• Remember that if dog bites you, you don't bite him/her.
• If you are being mentally harassed very often, You must talk to your Supervisor/Manager.
• Discuss your issue with your friends/family. They will guide you properly Or at least give some important points.
• After all these measures if your problems are not solved, you must talk to HR in your company and get it resolved ASAP. Remember that stitch in time saves nine.
• Remember that if you tolerate him/her, It will encourage him/her to harass you more.

My honest opinion is that We should act in a more wise manner. We should not get involved in any kind of spat with anyone. If there are conflicts, they should be resolved amicably. And always keep in mind that there is a supernatural power that punishes such people directly/indirectly at some point of life for their bad deeds.